I had someone refer to me as being "perfect" and then I saw someone near-by roll their eyes in disgust after that comment.
It made me feel uncomfortable. The person making the statement never noticed the other
Persons reaction, but I did. In fact I could have crawled into a little hole right then and
Would have been ok with it. I didn't and couldn't have if I wanted. The re I was hearing all
These words of praise in front of a bunch of strangers.
Some would argue that I have a low self-esteem if I cannot take a compliment. This was not a
Compliment. This was gushing over-rated undeserved praise. I had done nothing to warrant
Such praise. I was just being me. That was all. I was being a decent human doing what
Felt right for me. I was not following the crowd to fit in and was not being someone I am not
To score brownie points. Yet some how doing the right thing seems so rare these days
My values stood out and caused one person to think I was a pious twit and another to
Swoon such traits. I really wish people would get to know me better before slobbering
Praises about so much. I am not perfect. I am far from it. Neither have I ever pretended to be.
I do have values, morals, and expect decent behavior from folks but I am in no way a
Pious saint and divine angel. It's more like pointy horns and sharp tallons.
You are perfectly you and that is divine... pointy horns and all. You stand out because you are not a sheep. It befuddles some, to come across a person who acts based on their own reasoning, thinking, independently made decisions.
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